
Your friendly gothic cuddle buddyBoo! I’m Reuben (he/him) and I’m excited to take this journey with you into the world of platonic touch. Looking for a listening ear, emotional support, and safe, consensual touch without judgment? I’m here for you. Your hurt, grief, desires, boundaries, and feelings are valid. Whatever the reason you’re seeking support in this space, it matters. I welcome you in, and together we’ll create an experience that makes you feel safe to laugh, hug, cry, and be authentic.Who am I?
I am a neurodivergent, trans, aroace human who loves working with diverse people and helping them bring the healing power of platonic touch into their lives. My work in cuddle therapy is shaped by my spiritual practice in Paganism, but I am an ex-mo that welcomes people of all faith identities into my practice. I am constantly educating myself to be a better ally to all communities, and look forward to create a space tailored to you and your needs.Why Choose Me?
I have been working as a touch professional for 8+ years, am a Cuddlist certified professional cuddler, and create spaces that are safe, boundary-conscious, and trauma-informed. I am always continuing my education to improve my space through both formal university education and through learning from other professionals in the field.
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Currently I'm based in Cache Valley, Utah, USA.I tour around the U.S. and occasionally make international trips, if you're not in my local area feel free to reach out about either me touring near you or FMTY bookings. I'm happy to meet you wherever you're at.
Individual Sessions (sliding scale) $80 - 120 / hour
Couple's Sessions $100 / hour
Virtual Session $60 / hour30% Deposit Required
Travel Fee: Varies by Location
Rates listed are outcall only, I am happy to book a space (incall) for an additional $200.Cancellation Policy: To refund the deposit, cancellations are due 24 hours prior to a session at the latest (48 hours for incall or appointments requiring extended travel). Reschedules must happen prior to then as well to avoid additional fees.
Sessions are confidential, NOT anonymous. In order to book with me, you must provide your phone number, a form of government-issued ID, and either complete a video consultation or provide a reference from a therapist, another cuddlist, or a similar professional.All new clients are offered a video consulation to chat and see if we're a good fit. The deposit must be sent prior to this call. It can be refunded if we decide not to move forward with a booking, and will be kept as a no show fee if you do not show up.If you have a talk therapist you've been seeing a minimum of a year, are looking to enhance your work with them, and know they are open to working with a Cuddlist, introduce us. We can work together in the triadic model to improve your progress.
You can reach out Sunday - Saturday from 9:30am - 9:30pm to inquire about bookings. New clients can expect a response within 24 - 48 hours.My availability is very flexible with enough notice. Please book me a few days in advance. I do not offer same day appointments for new clients.Email: [email protected]